Was reading loveherwell's entry today & really wanted to leave a note/say something, because I'm so familiar with the way she describes how she's feeling now. Couldn't bring myself to do so, however, because honestly, what could I say that's helpful? "I understand"? "Me too"? Platitudes. I have no advice to offer, because all I can ever do is be patient & wait for the feelings to fade, which they always do. Suggesting someone do nothing but wait? Not helpful either.
It sometimes surprises me, just how many of us experience that ache of loneliness, and I wonder, did we somehow learn to expect life/relationships to be a certain way, only to find our expectations were completely wrong? Were we taught that life would be a certain way, only to discover that we were misled? Or were we not taught at all & had to infer through mass media & the external trappings of the relationships we could see around us, without ever knowing the truth of their inner workings, leaving us disillusioned?
I honestly don't know where I'm going with this. I can't even think of a reasonable conclusionary statement with which to wrap this entry up...
10:43 a.m. - 2020-04-22
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