Talked to GRJ this morning. Her b/f finally moved out of her place a day or two ago, so she's been feeling a bit relieved, and a bit more relaxed. His living there was really causing her a lot of stress, and I think she'll be able to focus on her business a lot better now. She's already changing her space, moving her bed into another room, repainting, etc. It's a good thing for her, and I'm glad.
Found out Viv got engaged on NYE to a guy she's been seeing for a bit now. I don't think it's been long, maybe a year or so? (I could be wrong, I only just heard about him a few weeks ago.) Her ex (her "baby-daddy" if that's how the term is used) is trying to get sole custody of her son, which, from what I've heard of him, is a bad idea. I know why he's doing it, though - FOC made a judgment about child support that he has to pay, and to be honest, it's pretty freakin high. That was Viv's goal all along, to get pregnant and then take him for a bunch of child support, so I really have no opinion on any of this, other than "Wow, I really dodged a bullet by ending it with that gal!" The more I find out about her, and hear from others, the less I want to have anything to do with her. She was just as sneaky & manipulative as KW, just a lot more subtle.
CC and I have reconnected a bit. My one little sentence has started us back on a conversational path, and she's told me that she's really enjoying talking again, that she misses me, and wishes she lived closer. I think it'd be really cool to hang out with her again, to actually get to talk in person... No, I'm not expecting anything to ever come from it beyond a friendship (if anything) and I don't even expect that, but it's been really nice to talk with her again. I've missed her too. Speaking of which, I just remembered I need to reply to her email today. Think I'll do that after lunch.
After two days of recovery after NYE, I finally got back out for a run on Saturday. still managed to make it 1.5 miles, even though the snow on the roads made it a bit slower than usual. I think I'm still on-pace for a 5K early this spring, if I can keep running before work. Speaking of that, I go back to work tomorrow morning, after having been off for over three weeks. I'm not looking forward to getting up (and running) so early, but it'll be good to get back into a routine, because all I've been doing is running, lifting, & sitting on the futon surfing the net & watching a bunch of old tv shows/movies. I didn't get one thing accomplished that I'd considered, around the house. I guess that's ok, because the exercise was the most important thing for me anyway. I've still got a few months to finish things up, in order to have the house semi-ready to sell in the spring. One of the first things I'm going to start doing is throwing things out/donating them. I want to get rid of everything I no longer need. Then I'll look at finishing the home repairs.
Still nothing on the dating front. Was hoping to meet someone at the NYE party, but not a chance. Again, that's just not my scene, and I need to stay away from those people & those situations. They're nice enough people, but you're supposed to surround yourself with people who will support and encourage you to achieve your goals, and my none of goals are to become a raging alcoholic, so...
I hope the notes get turned on again soon.
10:51 a.m. - 2015-01-04
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