So, I have a question, and I'm looking for thoughts/advice, regarding CC.
When we "broke up" (if you could call it that), we both said that we wanted to remain friends. I was under the impression that "friends" do more than just exchange pleasantries through email, like actually having a discussion of what's new & happening with each other, maybe an occasional get-together for coffee/drinks/lunch to see how things are going, etc. I've tried several times to make contact with her, and the only responses i seem to get are to my simple "was thinking of you, hope all's well" type emails. Twice now, I've suggested getting together for coffee or something, so we could catch up (once, a couplefew months ago, and once two weeks ago). Both times, she has pointedly ignored me. I was hoping that the first time was a fluke, like maybe she just missed it somehow.
It's seems obvious to me that she only told me she was interested in friendship to"soften the blow" so to speak. Regardless of the actual reason, it's apparent she wants nothing to do with getting together, so my question is this...
Should I just not write to her again & leave it at that? Should I let her know that I won't be writing again? I'm torn between just letting it go as is, or saying something to the effect that i got the message, that i'm glad i had the chance to meet her, that i hope things go well for her in the future & she's welcome to write me in the future if she changes her mind.
Intellectually, I know I should just let it go, but emotionally, I feel like I need a bit of closure, if that makes any sense; to kind of let her know I'm sorry it didn't work out, I'm grateful for the lessons I learned through knowing her, and that I would welcome her friendship again, if she'd like, at some point in the future.
What's everyone's thoughts on this? (Reasons why I should, or shouldn't write...)
7:24 p.m. - 2011-01-31
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