So, I have a question for yous... (Well, ok, first a statement, *then* a question!)
I like the fact that nobody knows how old I am around my town. It's fun, and I've realized that women find it intriguing, not knowing my age. It almost turns into a game of sorts, with them trying to trick me into revealing a clue or two.
I've been thinking about filling out an online dating profile (which, btw, I'll be approaching each of you for input, regarding my descriptions - I need help!!), but I'm hesitating at that particular issue. They require everyone to have their age visible. I really like the idea of not knowing, and honestly, would rather not know my dates age either (as long as their of legal age, that is!). What I've found is that younger women like knowing that I'm older, but not knowing *how much* older I am, and older women like just the opposite - knowing that I'm younger, but not exactly how much younger.
So my question to you, dear readers (who is it that says that all the time!?) is how can I work around this? I fear people will think that I'm hiding it because I'm an old letch, looking to "score a young hottie", or some such. Truthfully, my age would be a benefit for dating younger women, because many of them want an experienced, level-headed, confident older man, as opposed to a young, "studly", insecure hothead, unless of course, they're only looking for a physical relationship. (as an aside, I'm open to meeting/dating anyone, roughly between 25 & 40 � a couple years, depending...)
My first thought, is to set my age directly in the middle of the age range in which I'm looking to date, and being upfront about the fact that it's not true, and why. As all of you, dear readers, are women, I'd like your thoughts on this, and ideas for ways to work with this premise of keeping it a "secret". I realize that most everyone will say "honesty is the best policy", and if it comes right down to it, I suppose I may have to give in on this, but I'd like to avoid that if I can.
So, thoughts?
12:13 p.m. - 2009-10-09
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